 [The Atlanta
Journal-Constitution: 12.02.2001]
A lost
boy discovers America New life in Atlanta means mastering a
vacuum cleaner, keyboard, MARTA and the art of the job
interview
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 T. Levette
Bagwell/AJC Roommates Peter Ayuen Anyang, Daniel
Khon Khoch and Marko Aguer Ayii (from left) look over
his shoulder as Jacob Ngor Magot tries out a
typewriter at their Clarkston apartment.
| By MARK BIXLER Atlanta
Journal-Constitution Staff Writer
On his first
full day in the modern world, the young man explored a
kitchen. He opened a freezer, squinted at a package of frozen
beef and reached his hand in to feel the cold.
Then Jacob Ngor Magot, a thin man with impeccable manners
and an infectious laugh, turned to stare quizzically at the
white box with black coils on top. The cooking machine. He
turned a knob and held his right hand above one coil. Jacob
felt heat and yanked away his hand, eyes widening, a smile
spreading across his face.
It was a Thursday afternoon in a two-bedroom apartment in
Clarkston, 11 miles northeast of downtown Atlanta, and Jacob
was a bewildered time traveler in a strange new world. He was
four days and an ocean removed from a life of violence and
death in a land without electricity, telephones or running
water.
Jacob knew almost nothing of America, but he was in a hurry
to get his bearings and find a job. The U.S. government would
pay his rent and utilities and give him $200 a month for four
months.
Then he would be on his own.
Refugees begin this journey toward self-reliance the minute
they land in this country, but Jacob faced a more difficult
struggle than most.
His exodus began at age 5, when soldiers attacked his
village in southern Sudan. Jacob escaped but never saw his
parents again. He does not know if they survived. He marched
into the wild and eventually joined an estimated 17,000
children, mostly boys from a tribe called the Dinka. The
children wandered together for years. Nearly half were killed
by bandits and lions, starvation, disease or thirst.
"I walked all the way without somebody who was really
taking care of me," Jacob said. "I was not thinking I would
escape that situation, but God made it possible."
Jacob talks about his childhood with a quiet detachment. He
recalls matter-of-factly the boy who would have been killed by
a lion were it not for "the elder person who was having a
spear."
"One eye from that boy was removed," Jacob said.
He spent his teenage years in a refugee camp in Kenya,
sleeping in a hut with walls of mud and a roof of coconut
leaves and plastic. Aid workers estimated his age and assigned
him a "birthday" of Jan. 1, 1982. That would make him 19, but
no one knows his age for sure.
British missionaries taught him to add and subtract and
speak a stilted, formal English, but he lived without the
basics most Americans take for granted. He cooked over an open
flame, ate beans or maize and brushed his teeth with a
stick.
Coming to grips with Atlanta
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 1. An attack forces Jacob Ngo
Magot, 5, to leave his village near Bor, Sudan, in 1987.
He and hundreds of boys wander through the desert. He
eats leaves and wild fruit, but animals and disease kill
many friends. 2. Jacob arrives at a refugee
camp in Ethiopia after weeks in the wild. He lives there
four years. Hundreds of children like him starve to
death or die of disease. A new government makes the
children leave in 1991. 3. Soldiers chase
Jacob and other Lost Boys from the refugee camp. They
shoot and kill many and pursue others to the Gilo River.
Hundreds of boys, desperate, jump in. Crocodiles eat
several. Others drown. Jacob floats across on a car
tire. He is 9. 4. Jacob and other boys trek
through the desert to Pochala, Sudan, but unknown people
attack one night. They kill several children. Jacob is
exhausted but walks into the desert again. 5.
Animals and disease kill more children as they march
through the wild for months. Jacob arrives in August
1992 at a refugee camp in Kakuma, Kenya. He studies
English and math, attends church and eats grain once a
day for the next nine years. In July, at age 19, an
airplane takes Jacob from the camp on the first leg of a
72-hour journey to Atlanta.
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Last year, he heard that the United States would give a
permanent home to him and 3,800 refugees like him. Authorities
resettled them only after concluding that their parents were
probably dead and that protracted war made southern Sudan too
dangerous for their return.
Aid workers called them the Lost Boys of Sudan after the
"Peter Pan" characters who band together to avoid the adult
world.
Jacob would go to a place called Atlanta.
He had never held a job or paid a bill, but Jacob was
desperate to support himself in Atlanta, to prove he could
survive once again. But what if no one would hire him? What if
Americans mocked him for knowing so little?
He thought about it on his first night in this country,
July 17, in a darkened hotel room in New York.
"There is a reason for me to be in the United States," he
thought, "but I do not know it, so I must ask God."
Jacob, a Christian, sat up in bed and prayed. He reached
for a small blue diary.
"What have you plan for me?" he wrote. "What are going to
be my achievements here in US?"
An airplane flew him the next day to Hartsfield
International Airport. A caseworker named Matthew Kon, also a
Sudanese refugee, ferried Jacob and three roommates in a Chevy
Blazer up I-85 and I-285. Kon's wards peered through windows
to absorb sights they had never seen before, so many green
trees and tall buildings and the river of cars flowing
alongside them.
That first afternoon, after exploring the kitchen, Jacob
retreated to a bedroom and envisioned his future by recalling
the past, by remembering what aid workers had told him about
America.
"We were told there is something here called entry-level
jobs, like cleaning, carrying things in a factory," Jacob
said. "You are the one to determine your need. If you fail,
you will not blame anyone."
To Jacob's left sat Peter Ayuen Anyang, the tallest of his
roommates, with high, pronounced cheekbones and the innocent
smile of a child. Beside Peter was Daniel Khon Khoch, wearing
the blue plastic rosary he has worn each day since an Italian
priest named Father Joseph gave it to him in 1994 for singing
in the refugee camp choir. Off to the side was Marko Aguer
Ayii, who struggled with English but laughed as freely as the
others.
Jacob sat on his bed, roommates quiet beside him.
"Most of us will be having no vehicles," he said. "It will
be difficult if you get a job far from your living
quarters."
The cars and trucks in Atlanta intimidated him.
"If you walk randomly, maybe a vehicle will knock you."
He also was intimidated at the prospect of dating American
women.
"We were told that, here, if you want to make friends with
a girl, she might have had a boyfriend and that boyfriend
might go and kill you," he said. "If a girl asks to make a
friendship and you say no, will she kill you?"
Jacob and his roommates passed those first days in donated
clothes furnished by the International Rescue Committee, the
resettlement agency that sponsored them. They wore T-shirts
that said "Married With Children" and "Imagination Station."
Belts looped twice around their waists.
Food was the most immediate problem.
"We are hungry but do not know what to make of the food in
our kitchen," Jacob said.
How to open cans with names like "Chef Boyardee Cannelloni"
and "Healthy Choice Chicken and Rice Soup"? What to do with
the bag of sugar? What about the mysterious container of
orange powder that Peter held aloft?
"It is written here 'Tang,' " Peter said, "but we do not
know if it is healthy."
They ate once a day, at night, as they had done for eight
years in the refugee camp, gravitating toward foods that were
not so exotic. They relied mainly on white rice and wheat
bread, but it was not just food that confounded them.
'We have to make eye contact'
Jacob had spent his whole life on flat plains with few
trees, a tabletop landscape where you see the sun the minute
it breaks the horizon. But there were so many trees in
Georgia. Jacob could see light for hours before he ever saw
the sun.
SUDAN'S CIVIL WAR
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A brutal civil
war in Sudan pits the Arabic and Islamic northern
government against the Christian and animist south. It
has killed more than 2 million people since 1983,
including hundreds of thousands of civilians. That's
more than the combined death toll in Afghanistan,
Bosnia, Chechnya, Indonesia, Kosovo, Sierra Leona and
Somalia. The war has produced an unusual group of
refugees called the Lost Boys of Sudan. Most were forced
from home after northern soldiers attacked their
southern villages in 1986 or '87. Many survived because
they were tending cattle in fields away from home, a
tradition in their Dinka culture. Most girls, older
males and adults were killed. The children formed a
river of orphans wandering together for years. Many were
killed by wild animals, bandits, disease or starvation.
Survivors wound up in a refugee camp in Kakuma, Kenya.
The U.S. government agreed to resettle about 3,800 Lost
Boys after authorities concluded that their parents were
almost certainly dead and that persistent violence in
southern Sudan made their homes too dangerous for their
return. About 170 Lost Boys live in metro Atlanta. Like
all refugees, they have legal permission to live and
work in the United States and are eligible for
citizenship after five years.
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On his seventh day in America, Jacob and his roommates
walked behind Kon to the Kensington MARTA station for a lesson
on bus and train routes, important because Jacob would take
public transportation to whatever job awaited. He sat next to
Peter as they whizzed through a dark tunnel on the first train
ride of their lives.
"It is very, very, very, very long and very fast," Peter
said, beaming.
On the ride home, Jacob gazed through the window until he
saw the Kensington sign.
"We are supposed to alight here," he told the others.
A week later, Jacob rode MARTA to the IRC for a class on
job skills. He walked into a room where a yellow note on one
wall says "Wall" and another on a window says "Window." Robin
Harp, an employment specialist, talked about money.
"In the United States, there is an attitude that if you're
healthy and you're capable and you can work, then the
government should not give you money and you should work,"
Harp said.
She tried to brace them.
"Your first job will be difficult and you probably will not
like it, but remember, it's just a starting point," Harp said.
"You may have to ride the bus up to an hour and a half to the
job and an hour and a half back."
Back at the apartment, Jacob shared what he learned with
his roommates, who now included a fifth Lost Boy named John
Mach Rual. Peter had divined some of the same tips by reading
"Body Language in the Workplace," a paperback on their living
room coffee table.
"According to what I have read here, we can shake hands
with the interviewer," Peter explained. "We have to make eye
contact."
Jacob longed for an interview.
He waited.
The wonders of modern America
On Aug. 3, Jacob's 17th day in the United States, a
whirlwind of a woman named Dee Clement knocked on the door.
She is a volunteer who races in and out of the lives of many
of the 170 Lost Boys in metro Atlanta, delivering shoes and
towels and free life lessons. She strode into Jacob's
apartment with a typewriter, a Panasonic Jet Flow vacuum
cleaner and her dalmation, Polka Dot.
Jacob and his roommates settled into chairs in the living
room.
"This machine is a very, very special machine," Clement
began. "It's called a vacuum cleaner."
She picked hair from Polka Dot -- he was shedding -- and
sprinkled it on the carpet. Then she flicked a switch and the
very special machine started making noise. Jacob's eyes
followed the vacuum cleaner back and forth, back and
forth.
The dog hair was disappearing!
Clement taught them to peck keys on a typewriter.
"We all of us speak English Arabic Kishwahli and mother
tongueeee," Daniel typed. "America is the land of freedom.
America is multicultural land." And then, as Jacob talked
about bullets and fire that chased him from home: "Arabic
soldiers came and shot our people."
Soon Jacob fell into a routine. He went to church on
Sundays and attended GED preparation class from 5:30 p.m. to
8:30 p.m. Mondays and Wednesdays.
"The problem that will lead me not to get a better job is
because I have no skill, and it is through college that I will
get that skill," he said.
He practiced tuning radios and setting clocks.
"I have learned to use telephonic communications," he
announced.
About this time, the IRC matched Jacob and his roommates
with a permanent volunteer, Cheryl Grover , a real estate
consultant for Verizon Wireless. Jacob rode to her house one
Saturday in August, awed on the way by the web of interlacing
concrete bridges people call Spaghetti Junction. He wrote
"Spageti Juncho" in his diary.
"This one is very, very technical," he noted. "Some cars
are moving up and others are moving down."
He was in Grover's living room 20 minutes later. One of his
roommates balled up in fright when Grover's dogs, Max and
Baby, bounded into the room. She led the dogs away and
returned to tell her visitors to have no fear because the dogs
were in a bedroom.
"The dogs have their own bedroom?" Jacob asked.
"No, no," Grover said. "They're in my bedroom."
In the kitchen, she showed them the whirring box of metal
and glass that cooks food with invisible microwaves. She
taught them to cook hot dogs, refried beans and oatmeal. Then
Grover led them down carpeted stairs to show them
computers.
"Dear Cheryl," John wrote on the computer. "I am John from
the land of Cush [Sudan] eager to learn a lot of things. I
have left my mum and dad in Africa due to the emerge war in my
territory. This war caused great separation of relatives in
Sudan and many destruction."
On a payroll at last
As August merged into September, Jacob began to worry about
money. The IRC had given him $400 in spending money in his
first two months, but he sent every dime to the refugee camp
in Kenya. He wanted to help a brother and two sisters who
stumbled into the refugee camp in 1998. Soon, though, he
realized he needed money in Georgia. He ran out of donated
MARTA tokens and spent money from his third check to buy
some.
Jacob did not yet know it, but he would be eligible to
apply for emergency IRC aid if he lacked a job after four
months. Caseworkers had not told him to encourage
self-sufficiency, but Jacob needed no prodding. Failing to
find work in four months would be a crushing blow to his
pride.
"Here in America, it is through jobs that you can make your
life to be very successful, but if you have no jobs, you
cannot make it," he said. "I cannot tell you that I will
really make it, but I am trying if possible."
Jacob finally had an interview Sept. 7, at the Discovery
Channel Store in Lenox Mall. He and John went with their IRC
job developer, Benjamin Cushman, whom Jacob reverentially
calls "Mr. Benjamin." Job developer Valerie Hardin brought two
other Lost Boys.
Jacob wore tasseled black loafers, khaki pants, a dull blue
shirt, neatly pressed, and a Navy tie with red polka dots.
"You look very nice," Hardin told him. "I don't think I've
had another client wear a tie for a job interview."
Inside the mall, Jacob craned his neck to survey the second
level. "It will be confusing if one is to get a job here," he
said. "If I come alone, how will I find the way I am to go to
my workplace?"
John marveled at the mannequins, human forms the color of
peaches and milk chocolate, lavished in furs and jewelry.
"Somebody who is not a millionaire cannot come and buy
something here," he said.
Jacob strode out of the interview with a poker face but
beamed as he got near John.
"I told him I am hardworking, punctual, willing to work,"
he said.
He went home confident, but the phone did not ring.
"We are worried," Jacob said later. "It is getting now a
long time without a job."
He could only watch Sept. 19 as two roommates, Daniel and
Marko, started work at an Emory University cafeteria. He had
applied at the Discovery Channel Store, Home Depot, Publix,
Target and the Westin Peachtree Plaza. As he waited, Jacob
watched television on a tiny set, read about the U.S. Civil
War and thumbed through driver's license manuals.
He talked about buying a car one day and moving to Gwinnett
County, where he had seen so much open space on rides to
Grover's house in Duluth. It reminded him of the wide, flat
savanna of southern Sudan.
Finally, a few weeks before Thanksgiving, the phone started
ringing with job offers.
Peter found work stocking shelves at Target. John and
William bag groceries at Kroger.
Jacob's job came days before his last $200 check.
He earns $7.25 an hour at the Discovery Channel Store and
$8.50 an hour stocking shelves at Target on North Druid Hills
Road.
Sometimes he works all night at Target, sleeps on the bus
and stocks shelves in the morning and afternoon at the
Discovery Channel Store. Recently he opened his first bank
account and deposited $1,400. He is tired more often, pays
more attention to time.
Jacob is relieved to be working, but he can't get too
excited. The Discovery Channel Store job is only part time. It
could end after the holidays. And a week after Jacob started
at Target, the store announced it would close for remodeling
in January. Jacob might have to find a new job all over again
next month. But he notices that most Americans somehow seem to
manage.
If they can make it, he says, maybe he can, too.
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